Category Archives: Memoir

Twenty-Six and the Ugliest Cake

I feel vaguely guilty whenever I leave this bench.  It’s a white bench, made of marble.  It sits along a pathway through the campus of a private school in a suburb of Seattle.  On one side of the horizontal slab, black carved letters in a swooshy font spell out my son’s name.  His birth date.  [...]

Finalist

I received a very nice phone call Saturday. The caller was Pam Binder, of the Pacific Northwest Writers Association. She told me that one of my essays, “Telling Him,” is a finalist in the PNWA’s annual writing contest, in the Short Adult Topics category. I’ll find out exactly where I finish when I attend the [...]

What is Trieste?

And how is Trieste relevant to my story? Fellow writers, upon reading an early version of my book, challenged me with a question:  “You’ve written about your own experience and your experience with your children, but you’ve hardly mentioned your father.  You didn’t show up to the challenges fatherhood a blank slate.  How did he [...]

Why write a memoir?

My inspiration came from the reactions of friends and family to emails I wrote while my son Andrew battled brain cancer.  They wanted to know what was going on.  Each time I was about to hit “Send,” I couldn’t help but feel that I was imposing on them, or at least depressing them with the [...]